Finding out that someone likes you might be the worst or the best feeling in the world. It can be your neighbour, in school, college or at work and it can happen anytime. You can either accept it or reject it in a nice way but if you're having the same feeling then here are the 5 things of What To Do If Someone Likes You.
1. Find out if it's true. We want to avoid embarrassment here from hearing a fake rumour.
Yikes! Rumours can be scary sometimes but hey, if you happen to like that person as well, why not ask?
- You can either ask the best or closest friends.
- Ask that person directly.
Or if you're too shy, write a note and pass it to that person and wait for a reply.
2. Ask Your Partner Out For A Date.
Obviously. Duhh! It doesn't matter who likes who but give it a try and it's okay if you're shy because some people find it cute and attractive. Also don't forget to get small gifts since it's going to be the first date!
3. Keep Contacting Each Other.
Text or call in the morning or randomly because it shows that you are seriously interested in them and can't stop thinking about them. It is important to keep the communication going because it's healthy and it makes them smile every time your name appears on their lock screen. That's not a lie.
4. Do Things Together.
Once you find out what you guys like what to do together, keep it going because it's fun and it's memorable. It is also good to try new things like exploring new places,facing your darkest fears or unforgettable things. Pretty sure you get that figured out.
5. Buy gifts.
Every once in awhile, buy your partner a gift to show that you appreciate your partner. Gifts can be such a good memory and it can last forever. It doesn't have to be fancy, it can be cute and beautiful. Another one is to throw your partner a surprise on his/her birthday or randomly.
Wednesday, 22 February 2017
Tuesday, 21 February 2017
9 Things To Avoid During A Date.
Yikes! I just asked a girl out for a date!
OMG. He just asked me out for a date!
Dating. A nerve-wrecking, fun and exciting thing that everyone goes through in their lives. Honestly, it takes a lot of courage to ask someone out, right? It's not an easy job! Whether a guy is having a crush on a girl or the girl likes a guy, whichever way, asking someone out is the first step and these are the 9 things to avoid during a date.
1. Being Late.
No one likes to wait. Ever. When you say 8pm or 8.30pm, be sure to get ready early and get there on time. Doesn't matter if you guys plan to meet somewhere or one of you is waiting at home, being on time really matters! But sometimes things can happen at the last minute and the best thing you can do is to call your partner and tell them that you're going to be late and make sure it doesn't happen again unless it was an emergency.
2. Cancelling Last Minute.
Your partner is waiting and suddenly something came up that you have to cancel. Like what?! Oh, can't imagine the frustration. Cancelling last minute should be last on the list because it's just painful after hours and hours of getting ready and looking forward to go out for the date. If you really need to cancel, call/text (calling is better) an hour before so that your partner can plan what to do next.
3. Answering calls/texts during a date.
*Click,click,click,click*
Whoa hey, are you here to have a date with me or what? A date is for both of you to communicate, get to know each other and have fun. It's the period of time where you guys find out what you guys like,love and hate. Keep the phones away or put it on silent mode because it's just rude to interrupt when someone is talking and like :
"I'm sorry, i need to pick this up"
"I'm sorry, i have to settle this immediately"
"Sorry, it was my bla bla bla bla"
It's okay to answer the phone if your mom/dad is calling.
4. Bringing your friend along to the date.
That i say.. is a total disaster. No one ever brings a friend to a date. Ever. The worst is that your friend will be bored and lonely while you and your partner are talking or walking around holding hands. There will be no intimacy between you two, whatever you guys are up to next, she/he will be there pretending to not know what happen or witness anything and it's going to be super super awkward.
5. Promise Something.
You hardly know each other and you already want to promise something? Isn't it too early or too soon to promise something unless you guys are already in a long term relationship. Don't promise anything just yet because you don't know if you're going out for a date with your partner again. Still too early.
6. Exposing Your Secrets.
No, no, no and no. You barely knew each other and you already want to tell them your secrets? You don't know who are their friends or who they hangout with. Could be your high school bullies or someone you hate. It is such a small world. If you want to share your secrets, make sure you already know your partner deep enough and trust them well.
7. Talk About Your Previous Relationship.
This is probably another big mistake. To talk about your previous relationship shows that you are still revengeful on that person or unable to move on from it. You wouldn't want to compare your previous relationship with the new person you are dating. The reason to date a new person is because you moved on and forget about the past and want to start a new romantic life with your partner. The past is the past, let it go.
8. Staring / Checking Out Other People.
Your partner is talking to you but your eyes are staring at someone else. Please don't ever do that because it is very disrespectful. There must be a reason why you asked your partner out for a date, something that got your attention. It is absolutely rude to stare or check out someone else while you're dating someone.
9. Lie.
Whatever questions your partner asks you or whatever things you want to tell your partner, just tell them with honesty. Whether they can accept it or not, it's okay as long as you're being honest. Don't lie because things can go really bad if your partner finds out the truth. It's either your partner won't ever go out with you again or won't even talk to you for a period of time. You have to show your partner that you're trustworthy and worth their time.
9 of these may be not the best of what to avoid during a date, but i hope you enjoyed reading. Thanks and hope your date will go well. :)
Sunday, 13 March 2016
Busy busy busy!
Hey readers, i would like to apologise for not posting anything lately. I've started working and didnt have the time to write and post :( Hopefully i can find some free time soon and start writing.. then post!
Have a nice day. :)
Have a nice day. :)
Wednesday, 29 July 2015
How To Tell If A GIRL Likes You (From A Girl's Point Of View)
There are so many pretty girls out there that is so hard to resist especially when a single guy like you is looking for a girlfriend. It can be anybody and yes it's hard to determined if she likes you back or not. Now, don't lose that hope as i will explain to you on how to tell if a girl likes you, coming from a girl's point of view! Happy reading!
1. She texts you back!
Whether you texted her last night or this morning or thinking to text her later, when she reply your text, it's an obvious sign that she likes you but then again ... is she just being friendly or just don't want to offend you by ignoring your text? (oh dear...) Clearly, if a girl doesn't like you, she won't reply your text or she won't bother reading your text. When she replies, just talk to her and ask her how is she doing, what is she up to. Keep the conversation running as you want to make her comfortable around you! She may take a little bit of time to reply depending if she's busy or not.. but just go with the flow.
2. She cares for you!
That's right, when a girl starts to be all caring and what not it's a sign that she is developing some feelings for you. She will make sure that you have eaten your lunch/dinner, have plenty of rest and get home safely. She will start calling /texting you to ask where you're at, what time you're going home, are you going to be home late. Basically, she is just worried. Girls are shy (seriously) to confess their feelings to a guy she likes (scared of rejection and friendzoned), so this may be a way for her to show that she likes you.Pay attention to these little signs as they are really important and she will expect you to be the same as her.
3. She will laugh at your lamest jokes!
You're a funny guy, you must be one! Whenever you guys are going out for a date or just some casual outing, you start to get a little funny and tell her a joke and it was an old one from your school years. She started to laugh or giggle or just burst out laughing. Dude, that's a sign that she likes you, it's obvious (duh!!) When a girl laughs, she is definitely falling for one of your magical charms and it's good because it can be break the tension/nervousness between you two. Don't be afraid to be silly around her as when she starts to laugh, she is falling slowly for you and she will think that you're cute! (*giggle*)
4. She starts to stare at you all the time!
It's lunch time and you're sitting at the lunch table with your friends having some laughs and talking about football then... minutes later you realise that your crush is sitting across from you with her friends (bam!). You notice that she has been staring at you all the time instead of talking to her friends. You look at other direction and look back at her, she is still staring at you. (What's going on?) She definitely likes you, maybe because you're wearing her favourite colour t-shirt today or maybe because you're naturally handsome that she can't get her eyes off you. Instead of holding a long stare at her, smile at her or wink. Girls like it when a guy wink at her and if you're crazy enough, walk over to her table and ask her out!
5. She start to give you random touches or hit your arm playfully!
She was talking to you and laughing at your jokes and suddenly she hits you hard on the arm (in a good way) and continue to laugh. Now, this is another sign that she is into you as she starting to be comfortable around you and she feels safe around you. It's just not being safe or comfortable, she is also flirting with you. Don't be surprised when she suddenly give you a random hug before she goes home or putting her head on your shoulder when you guys are watching a movie in the cinema. When she does that, she is expecting the same from you! Hug her back or put your arms around her, (Why should i do that?) well.. basically, she will feel like she is special and will remember this day forever. (Girls are very fragile)
6. She talk about you with her girlfriends!
When a girl is in love, she won't stop talking about you. This is a big sign as she wants her friends to know who is she dating and she is currently happy. She is not gossiping about you, she's just talking about you with her girlfriends about the little dates you guys had, the dinner you cook for her because all these means a lot to her. So, when you pass her table during lunch or bump into her at the mall and the girls are giggling at you, yeap! She definitely talked about you (in a good way). Now, don't go asking her what she shared with her friends as this is her personal space. Just give a small smile or give her a kiss if you want to.
7. She dresses up for you randomly!
At the mall, the park or anywhere, she is wearing this beautiful red dress with light makeup when it's just a simple outing. Another sign of a girl liking you is when she dresses up randomly and that is because she wants to look good for you and wants to impress you even when it's just a simple date. She wants you to remember what she wears on that day so that it can turn into beautiful memories when you guys get married later on. ("Remember i wore this dress back in those days?"). When she feels good around you, it will boost her beauty confidence!
8. She touches her hair/play with her hair.
She may not notice this but when a girl is playing,twisting,curling her hair while talking to you with a smile,laughter and with direct eye contact, she is definitely flirting with you. But if she twirling her hair while looking at other direction and keep changing her body posture, she is nervous. Watch out for her body language as it can mean a lot like example : her body is facing you, her feet are facing your direction, she is looking at you in the eye, random touches on your arms and laughing hysterically on your jokes, she is definitely flirting and she's into you! Keep your eyes open for these signs, dont miss any of them!
1. She texts you back!
Whether you texted her last night or this morning or thinking to text her later, when she reply your text, it's an obvious sign that she likes you but then again ... is she just being friendly or just don't want to offend you by ignoring your text? (oh dear...) Clearly, if a girl doesn't like you, she won't reply your text or she won't bother reading your text. When she replies, just talk to her and ask her how is she doing, what is she up to. Keep the conversation running as you want to make her comfortable around you! She may take a little bit of time to reply depending if she's busy or not.. but just go with the flow.
2. She cares for you!
That's right, when a girl starts to be all caring and what not it's a sign that she is developing some feelings for you. She will make sure that you have eaten your lunch/dinner, have plenty of rest and get home safely. She will start calling /texting you to ask where you're at, what time you're going home, are you going to be home late. Basically, she is just worried. Girls are shy (seriously) to confess their feelings to a guy she likes (scared of rejection and friendzoned), so this may be a way for her to show that she likes you.Pay attention to these little signs as they are really important and she will expect you to be the same as her.
3. She will laugh at your lamest jokes!
You're a funny guy, you must be one! Whenever you guys are going out for a date or just some casual outing, you start to get a little funny and tell her a joke and it was an old one from your school years. She started to laugh or giggle or just burst out laughing. Dude, that's a sign that she likes you, it's obvious (duh!!) When a girl laughs, she is definitely falling for one of your magical charms and it's good because it can be break the tension/nervousness between you two. Don't be afraid to be silly around her as when she starts to laugh, she is falling slowly for you and she will think that you're cute! (*giggle*)
4. She starts to stare at you all the time!
It's lunch time and you're sitting at the lunch table with your friends having some laughs and talking about football then... minutes later you realise that your crush is sitting across from you with her friends (bam!). You notice that she has been staring at you all the time instead of talking to her friends. You look at other direction and look back at her, she is still staring at you. (What's going on?) She definitely likes you, maybe because you're wearing her favourite colour t-shirt today or maybe because you're naturally handsome that she can't get her eyes off you. Instead of holding a long stare at her, smile at her or wink. Girls like it when a guy wink at her and if you're crazy enough, walk over to her table and ask her out!
5. She start to give you random touches or hit your arm playfully!
She was talking to you and laughing at your jokes and suddenly she hits you hard on the arm (in a good way) and continue to laugh. Now, this is another sign that she is into you as she starting to be comfortable around you and she feels safe around you. It's just not being safe or comfortable, she is also flirting with you. Don't be surprised when she suddenly give you a random hug before she goes home or putting her head on your shoulder when you guys are watching a movie in the cinema. When she does that, she is expecting the same from you! Hug her back or put your arms around her, (Why should i do that?) well.. basically, she will feel like she is special and will remember this day forever. (Girls are very fragile)
6. She talk about you with her girlfriends!
When a girl is in love, she won't stop talking about you. This is a big sign as she wants her friends to know who is she dating and she is currently happy. She is not gossiping about you, she's just talking about you with her girlfriends about the little dates you guys had, the dinner you cook for her because all these means a lot to her. So, when you pass her table during lunch or bump into her at the mall and the girls are giggling at you, yeap! She definitely talked about you (in a good way). Now, don't go asking her what she shared with her friends as this is her personal space. Just give a small smile or give her a kiss if you want to.
7. She dresses up for you randomly!
At the mall, the park or anywhere, she is wearing this beautiful red dress with light makeup when it's just a simple outing. Another sign of a girl liking you is when she dresses up randomly and that is because she wants to look good for you and wants to impress you even when it's just a simple date. She wants you to remember what she wears on that day so that it can turn into beautiful memories when you guys get married later on. ("Remember i wore this dress back in those days?"). When she feels good around you, it will boost her beauty confidence!
8. She touches her hair/play with her hair.
She may not notice this but when a girl is playing,twisting,curling her hair while talking to you with a smile,laughter and with direct eye contact, she is definitely flirting with you. But if she twirling her hair while looking at other direction and keep changing her body posture, she is nervous. Watch out for her body language as it can mean a lot like example : her body is facing you, her feet are facing your direction, she is looking at you in the eye, random touches on your arms and laughing hysterically on your jokes, she is definitely flirting and she's into you! Keep your eyes open for these signs, dont miss any of them!
Thanks for reading peeps and stay happy! :)
Tuesday, 28 July 2015
How To Tell If A Guy Likes You
When a guy likes you it can be really confusing and really complicated as we are not sure what to do and what are the signs! He can be your high school friend or this guy who's in the same as you in college. Learning the first signs will make it clear and they are not so hard at all, just remember to pay attention to small details! Happy reading!
1. He asks for your phone number!
RING RING!! The first thing a guy would do when he likes you is asking for your phone number and this is because, he obviously (duh!) wants to contact you, to know what you're up to and also to know you more. Be prepared for random texts/call at midnight/morning but that doesn't mean it's bad, it means that he is thinking about you whenever he text/call you. If you are busy, don't be afraid to reply a bit later or you can send a short text saying that you are busy and you will get back to him soon, simple as that.
2. He admit it!
Coming from a girl's point of view, i think this is the most obvious sign when a guy likes you. Normally, he will say it when you guys are chilling at the cafe or walking around the mall (or it can be anywhere,school,library,in the car, the park) when you guys are literally alone together. Some guys are really shy and usually they will send it by text or flowers with a little cute card on it saying "Hey.. I Like You". BUT, when a guy say he likes you, this is the part where you have to ask him : Do you like me as a friend or more than a friend? It can be confusing sometimes and that's when disaster happen. So make sure he makes it clear and from there, you know what to do!
3. He asks you out for a date!
'Will You Go Out On A Date With Me?" ... Candle light dinner by the beach/river. Riding the roller coaster, carousel together at the fun fair. Oh! Come on, who doesn't want to go out on a date for crying out loud, when a guy ask you out for a date, it's an obvious sign that he likes you. Period. Dating is fun because this is the time where you guys are exploring about each other from the favourite movies,music,places to travel and so much more! It is also to see if you guys can get along well (we want to avoid awkwardness here). Whenever you are on a date with him, take all the time you need and have fun, if the date ends well, there will be 99% chance that he might ask you out again.
4. He makes time for you!
We all have a tight schedule everyday and if a guy likes you genuinely, he will make time for you no matter what and he expects you to do the same.He wants to show that you that he is there for you anytime anywhere and you are his main priority to make sure that you are happy all the time. So whenever he asks you out for dinner or supper, just say yes even though your schedule is tight for the day. Another obvious sign is because he misses you (awww!) and that's why he wants to spend to as much time as he can with you. Just because he doesn't say it doesn't mean he is not. Maybe he is shy to say "I miss you".
5. He introduces you to his close friends!
When he is interested in you,one fine day, he will definitely introduce you to his friends to show that you guys are currently dating and he is the happiest man in the world. Soon enough you'll be getting Facebook friend requests and eventually, once or twice a week there is going to be a group outing where you guys and his friends will hang out and get to know them better. This is a strong sign that his feelings towards you are genuine. Just go with the flow, be yourself and soon later when things are getting serious, he will introduce you to his family!
6. He will make fun/teases you.
"Stop it! Hahahhaha". This is fun. Is he flirting or just playing around? Not all guys are good at telling their true feelings at heart towards you so he will start to make fun of you and tease you. How? By telling your hair is all messy and that dress doesn't suit you,or anything to embarrassed you. Well, don't take those personally as he is just messing around with you because this is to show that he is already comfortable being with you. Yep! On the other hand, he is expecting you to tease him back as a revenge in a joking way, so bring it on girl!
7. He stares at you a lot!
This is another obvious sign that he is into you! To be honest, this is the sweetest thing a guy can ever do you and make you go all red on the ears and cheeks. Why is he staring at me? Is there something on my face? The answer is no! The reason why he is staring at you is because he finds you beautiful and attractive and he doesn't have the courage to approach you so all he could do is stare at you. To him you are like this glowing diamond in the middle of the class/park and he is distracted. Yes, sometimes staring at people can be really creepy but we can't help it, it's part of human nature to stare at each other.
8. He remembers all your favourite food/drink/place.
He pays attention to the smallest details. When a guy remembers all your favourite food/drink/place, you know he is getting serious and thinking about you being his girlfriend (it might be tomorrow or the day after tomorrow or next month, we don't know!). This is the sweetest thing ever, imagine going to a grocery store together and he just comes up to you and say "i got your favourite drink", omg, isnt' that like.. awww! Guys can come up with weird ways of telling a girl that he likes her, they are so funny sometimes. Whatever he remembers, this is a sign that he really really, like literally likes you and but afraid to tell you so pay close attention!
Thanks for reading peeps and stay happy!! :)
1. He asks for your phone number!
RING RING!! The first thing a guy would do when he likes you is asking for your phone number and this is because, he obviously (duh!) wants to contact you, to know what you're up to and also to know you more. Be prepared for random texts/call at midnight/morning but that doesn't mean it's bad, it means that he is thinking about you whenever he text/call you. If you are busy, don't be afraid to reply a bit later or you can send a short text saying that you are busy and you will get back to him soon, simple as that.
2. He admit it!
Coming from a girl's point of view, i think this is the most obvious sign when a guy likes you. Normally, he will say it when you guys are chilling at the cafe or walking around the mall (or it can be anywhere,school,library,in the car, the park) when you guys are literally alone together. Some guys are really shy and usually they will send it by text or flowers with a little cute card on it saying "Hey.. I Like You". BUT, when a guy say he likes you, this is the part where you have to ask him : Do you like me as a friend or more than a friend? It can be confusing sometimes and that's when disaster happen. So make sure he makes it clear and from there, you know what to do!
3. He asks you out for a date!
'Will You Go Out On A Date With Me?" ... Candle light dinner by the beach/river. Riding the roller coaster, carousel together at the fun fair. Oh! Come on, who doesn't want to go out on a date for crying out loud, when a guy ask you out for a date, it's an obvious sign that he likes you. Period. Dating is fun because this is the time where you guys are exploring about each other from the favourite movies,music,places to travel and so much more! It is also to see if you guys can get along well (we want to avoid awkwardness here). Whenever you are on a date with him, take all the time you need and have fun, if the date ends well, there will be 99% chance that he might ask you out again.
4. He makes time for you!
We all have a tight schedule everyday and if a guy likes you genuinely, he will make time for you no matter what and he expects you to do the same.He wants to show that you that he is there for you anytime anywhere and you are his main priority to make sure that you are happy all the time. So whenever he asks you out for dinner or supper, just say yes even though your schedule is tight for the day. Another obvious sign is because he misses you (awww!) and that's why he wants to spend to as much time as he can with you. Just because he doesn't say it doesn't mean he is not. Maybe he is shy to say "I miss you".
5. He introduces you to his close friends!
When he is interested in you,one fine day, he will definitely introduce you to his friends to show that you guys are currently dating and he is the happiest man in the world. Soon enough you'll be getting Facebook friend requests and eventually, once or twice a week there is going to be a group outing where you guys and his friends will hang out and get to know them better. This is a strong sign that his feelings towards you are genuine. Just go with the flow, be yourself and soon later when things are getting serious, he will introduce you to his family!
6. He will make fun/teases you.
"Stop it! Hahahhaha". This is fun. Is he flirting or just playing around? Not all guys are good at telling their true feelings at heart towards you so he will start to make fun of you and tease you. How? By telling your hair is all messy and that dress doesn't suit you,or anything to embarrassed you. Well, don't take those personally as he is just messing around with you because this is to show that he is already comfortable being with you. Yep! On the other hand, he is expecting you to tease him back as a revenge in a joking way, so bring it on girl!
7. He stares at you a lot!
This is another obvious sign that he is into you! To be honest, this is the sweetest thing a guy can ever do you and make you go all red on the ears and cheeks. Why is he staring at me? Is there something on my face? The answer is no! The reason why he is staring at you is because he finds you beautiful and attractive and he doesn't have the courage to approach you so all he could do is stare at you. To him you are like this glowing diamond in the middle of the class/park and he is distracted. Yes, sometimes staring at people can be really creepy but we can't help it, it's part of human nature to stare at each other.
8. He remembers all your favourite food/drink/place.
He pays attention to the smallest details. When a guy remembers all your favourite food/drink/place, you know he is getting serious and thinking about you being his girlfriend (it might be tomorrow or the day after tomorrow or next month, we don't know!). This is the sweetest thing ever, imagine going to a grocery store together and he just comes up to you and say "i got your favourite drink", omg, isnt' that like.. awww! Guys can come up with weird ways of telling a girl that he likes her, they are so funny sometimes. Whatever he remembers, this is a sign that he really really, like literally likes you and but afraid to tell you so pay close attention!
Thanks for reading peeps and stay happy!! :)
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